Do as you say and say what you do

It is a sentence frequently said. And it is worth a lot in my job. But apparently I am te only one acting after it! So why should you act the way you say? Or just not around me? Am I 'too nice'? How the h*ll can you be too nice? Am I just not cocky or spontaneous enough? Is that why? It's always the same. Fine! If then I won't jump through hoops any more. I just have to get back into control myself.

Ciao!

Ixis